Communicate with confidence – how to deal with difficult people

Dealing with Difficult People

a unique course to learn valuable tools on how to deal with the difficult people in your life

 Next course will start on January 16th 2018 @ 6-7.30pm

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how to deal with difficult people

Are difficult people getting in the way of your happiness, well-being and success?

You may find them at work, in social situations, you may live them or they may be members of your family?

Even worse when you see them getting away with things; getting their way even though there is no sense to to it; getting advantages over everyone else; and in many cases being rewarded for their abusive behaviour with promotion and other advantages!

You probably would never want to behave the way they do. You don’t have it in you or you just couldn’t live with yourself if you behaved like that.

Maybe you’re attempts to confront them have failed and you’ve ended up with egg on your face, with them having more opportunity to have a “dig” at you.

As a result you may have come to the conclusion that it’s the nasty people that get ahead, and someone like you, just has to put up with this behaviour from others.

claire135It’s what I used to believe.
I saw these people achieving things that I couldn’t, and I gave up any hope that I could excel in this kind of way. But I was fed up with them undermining me, walking all over me, taking advantage of me, manipulating me, dis-empowering me  and generally dominating me.

And I was also fed up with feeling angry with myself for giving my power away to them, failing to be assertive once again and for losing my own self respect. It wasn’t doing anything for my confidence.

But is it really the nasty types that get ahead – in the long term?
Does being nasty, bullying, manipulating and overpowering other people really help to win friends and influence people?  In the end, I believe this kind of behaviour does back-fire on most people.

Another Way to Build Confidence and Self Respect

how to deal with difficult peopleMuch later in my life I discovered there was another way of interacting with these kinds of  people that was a lot more effective – and helped to build my self respect and confidence – and meant that these kind of people whilst unpleasant to deal with and be around, didn’t get to dis-empower me.

It also meant that they wouldn’t even think of approaching me to do the menial tasks that no one else wanted to do.

New course: Dealing with Difficult People
In this new course we will be addressing the area of how to hold your own against a wide range of difficult people, at work or in your personal life.

You will be discovering that you can get much further by being straightforward and authentic.

But you do need to know how to play the game  which does not need you to resort to anything underhand. But it does require you to make a shift within yourself.

  • You’ll also be discovering if there’s anything you are doing that is causing them to behave towards you in a disrespectful way.
  • You will learn powerful communication and drama exercises that enables you to be get across your message to the difficult people in your life,  so that they can be more open to respect your point of view.
  • You will have the opportunity to work on an area of difficulty and breakthrough any blocks that is perpetuating the situation, and receive feedback from others so you can communicate more effectively in future.

This 12 week course is aimed of people who have reached a certain level of confidence or participated in previous Making Moves courses.

I look forward to supporting you in making a transformation in this area of your communication.

Amazing insight into the various personalities people have. Also seeing the intent that drives people’s difficult behaviour and how to deal with it has made it much easier for me to relate to such people. What I learned too is that I am also at times a difficult person. The biggest shift for me is realising that the quality of the relationship I have with someone is my responsibility, so really I have to take ownership. I now feel bolder, more courageous and slightly less insecure facing people with authority. Ida, health practititioner

I signed up to the Dealing with Difficult People course as I’ve always had trouble dealing with difficult personality types, especially at work. I have done other courses with Claire and I like the safe and comfortable atmosphere she creates. The course explored the main difficult personality types and what motivates people to behave that way. I came away understanding some of the difficult people in my life much better as well as how my own behaviour could at tines come across as difficult. 
 
I’d highly recommend this course to anyone who finds themselves replaying events with difficult people and thinking ‘I should have said this instead’. I am still using the tools I learnt in the course and I have felt a great improvement in many relationships. I’m getting better at handling difficult situations and people, asserting boundaries without feeling guilty. Most importantly I had a lot of fun and always looked forward to the session every week.  Jennifer, teacher

I have done several of Claire’s courses over the last few years, starting with “Finding Your Voice”. Part of my reason for going on “Finding Your Voice” was to start feeling more confident when I deal with people that are very different to me or challenging in some way. I had a big shift in my inner confidence from that course, so when Claire ran “Dealing with Difficult People” I was very keen to join. It was really useful to understand the different types of difficult people, their motivations, the behaviours that they can employ, and how I react to them. Being able to think about effective ways of responding, without being “on the spot” in a real situation, and to try different approaches was extremely valuable. It has given me lots of food for thought and helped me to not feel intimidated by the overbearing people I encounter in my work. I also learned a great deal from the experiences of others on the course and the types of difficult people they encounter. And it was lots of fun!  Mary O’Donnell, engineer

I have been using lots of the things I learned during our course in the last few months. I’m getting better at handling difficult situations and people, asserting boundaries without feeling guilty. Jenny

See testimonials of how effective these methods are from my other courses.

DEALING WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE COURSE
Dates:
16th January – 3rd April 2018  (Tuesday evenings – 12 sessions)
Times: 6pm-7.30pm
Venue: Magdalen Centre, Euston, London
Tubes: 
Euston/Mornington Crescent
Cost:
£300 (12 sessions which can be paid in installments) or £285 (full payment in advance)

You can let us know of your interest by paying the deposit or if you are not able to pay the deposit, via the booking form i.e. just let us know your details so we can be in contact with you. 

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See calendar for planned dates of other courses.

How to find the Magdalen Centre (next to St Mary’s Church)

Limited spaces so you are advised to book as soon as possible. Please note: it is fine to miss one or two sessions and still get enormous value from the course.

 

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From: Claire Schrader

claire135Hi there
Welcome to Making Moves particularly if you've been struggling with confidence.
I've been there myself so I do understand.

If you want to get started as soon as possible we have a few places left at the   Introductory Evening on 14th Dec - a great way to get a taste of what to expect. There will be anther on 3rd January.

My next round of courses will start in January. Early booking is recommended

You can book online for all my courses and events.

Here are details of my regular courses :

The Breakthrough Group is the first step for many people - particularly if you feel shy, self conscious or experience social anxiety I've seen some miraculous transformations in my 20 years of running this group.

If speaking up in groups, being heard, or any kind of public speaking is your challenge, then then Finding Your Voice course is a good place to start. Particularly if anxiety and nerves are the issue. I've had people with very severe symptoms including panic attacks, overcome these issues with relative ease.

"I don't know what to say" improvisation for social confidence is great for people with average confidence who experience some form of social anxiety or awkwardness but find themselves stumped with knowing what to say. Working through improvisation and will transform your verbal confidence and social skills.

Or. book a telephone appointment with me or get in touch by email

I look forward to hearing from you

Best, Claire