Video: The Confidence to Take Risks

Video: The Confidence to Take Risks

A talk from the launch of my book From Wallflower to Sunflower, by Fran Singer, artist, teacher and therapist, who also endorsed the book. In this video, Fran talks about a very important aspect of confidence – the courage to take risks. WHY YOU NEED TO TAKE RISKS If you aren’t able to take risks – your confidence is not

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Video: Coming back to life – a participant speaks of her 20 years in Making Moves

Video: Coming back to life – a participant speaks of her 20 years in Making Moves

A participant speaks about her experience of participating in Making Moves courses over 20 years at the book launch of From Wallflower to Sunflower. She first attended in 1996 to the very first 6 session group I ran. She actually missed the very first session by mistake – and speaks of what she experienced when she came. She has participated

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Video – on being an introvert in an extraverted world

Video – on being an introvert in an extraverted world

At the book launch of “From Wallflower to Sunflower” I spoke about my motivation for writing the book, in relation to being an introvert in a world that’s set up for extroverts to succeed. If you’re an introvert, or have a strong introverted side, do you do you feel pressurised to be different from the way you are? You don’t

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Facebook Live: Surviving the Christmas Party Season

Facebook Live: Surviving the Christmas Party Season

Facebook Live: Surviving the Christmas Party Season I held my first ever Facebook Live on Wednesday 5th December 1.15-1.45pm GMT. And I was pretty nervous…. this was a new challenge. I was surprised how much I enjoyed it. I felt the kind of aliveness I used to feel when I used to “tread the boards”  – its an acting expression

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Making Moves in MARIE-CLAIRE

Making Moves in MARIE-CLAIRE

Hold your Head up High By Pamela Victor Marie-Claire (Malaysia) February 16, 2017 Marie-Claire asks: Is there a reason as to why some women are not as confident as others? Let your inner beauty shine through by upping your game with oozing confidence and sublime self-esteem to show the world your true worth. Happiness comes from within and we all

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How to stop killing your hopes and dreams

How to stop killing your hopes and dreams

Winter Solstice Morning This morning the new sun appeared on the horizon. It is the sun that will carry us through to midsummer. The Celts stayed awake all night to honour the dark time when the old sun dies (often through very bitter weather) and to watch the new sun arise on the horizon. The new sun is a faint

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How to stop shyness from ruining your life – Chrissy B Show – Sky TV

How to stop shyness from ruining your life – Chrissy B Show – Sky TV

How to stop shyness from ruining your life Making Moves was on the Chrissy B Show – “How to stop shyness from ruining your life” – SKY TV (channel 203) on the 10th June at 10pm. I was interviewed along with two very brave Making Moves participants by Chrissy B and shared their story of their painful battle with shyness.

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ARTICLE: They fuck you up your Mum and Dad

ARTICLE: They fuck you up your Mum and Dad

How to free yourself of the baggage you carry from family and discover the real purpose that your family have had in your life. Are you dreading being with your family this Christmas? Are you already getting that sinking feeling in your stomach. You’re going to have to be nice to people who made the most enormous mess of your

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Article: Stretching out of your comfort zone

Article: Stretching out of your comfort zone

Is there something big you know you want to do? If there is something really big that you know you want to do… so big that you don’t even know how to get started? Something that is beyond yourself, beyond what you think you can achieve? Can you imagine how you would feel if you were to begin to achieve

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Why we need to get out of our head?

Why we need to get out of our head?

How to stop the “cop in the head” from getting the better of you Are the cops in your head getting the better of you? By ” cops in the head” I mean the voices in your head that  tell you it would be a really bad idea and REALLY UNCOOL if you said or did what you wanted to

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