A unique course to learn valuable tools on how to deal with the difficult people in your life
Next course will run in 2020 – scroll below for details
Are difficult people getting in the way of your happiness, well-being and success?
You may find them at work, in social situations, you may live them or they may be members of your family?
Even worse when you see them getting away with things; getting their way even though there is no sense to it; getting advantages over everyone else; and in many cases being rewarded for their abusive behaviour with promotion and other advantages!
You probably would never want to behave the way they do. You don’t have it in you or you just couldn’t live with yourself if you behaved like that.
Maybe your attempts to confront them have failed and you’ve ended up with egg on your face, with them having more opportunity to have a “dig” at you.
As a result, you may have come to the conclusion that it’s the nasty people that get ahead, and someone like you just has to put up with this behaviour from others.
This is what I used to believe.
I saw these people achieving things that I couldn’t, and I gave up any hope that I could excel in this kind of way. But I was fed up with them undermining me, walking all over me, taking advantage of me, manipulating me, dis-empowering me and generally dominating me.
And I was also fed up with feeling angry with myself for giving my power away to them, failing to be assertive once again and for losing my own self-respect. It wasn’t doing anything for my confidence.
But is it really the nasty types that get ahead – in the long term?
Does being nasty, bullying, manipulating and overpowering other people really help to win friends and influence people? In the end, I believe this kind of behaviour does back-fire on most people.
Another Way to Build Confidence and Self Respect
Much later in my life I discovered there was another way of interacting with these kinds of people that was a lot more effective – and helped to build my self-respect and confidence – and meant that these kinds of people whilst unpleasant to deal with and be around, didn’t get to dis-empower me.
It also meant that they wouldn’t even think of approaching me to do the menial tasks that no one else wanted to do.
Dealing with Difficult People
In this course we will be addressing the area of how to hold your own against a wide range of difficult people, at work or in your personal life.
You will be discovering that you can get much further by being straightforward and authentic.
But you do need to know how to play the game which does not need you to resort to anything underhand. But it does require you to make a shift within yourself.
- You’ll also be discovering if there’s anything you are doing that is causing them to behave towards you in a disrespectful way.
- You will learn powerful communication and drama exercises that will enable you to be get across your message to the difficult people in your life, so that they can be more open to respect your point of view.
- You will have the opportunity to work on an area of difficulty and breakthrough any blocks that is perpetuating the situation, and receive feedback from others so you can communicate more effectively in future.
This 12 week course is aimed at people who have participated in previous Making Moves courses since we will be working through a dramatic process. Therefore I prefer you to have participated in at least one of my courses or workshops before you sign up for this one. If you have some drama experience, scroll below to contact me about your individual case.
I look forward to supporting you in making a transformation in this area of your communication.
What participants have said about Dealing with Difficult People
I signed up for “Dealing with Difficult People” because I was confronted with a challenging situation in my personal life. I felt attacked, blamed and accused without any reason. I felt these people just did not listen to me or understand me and whatever I would do, they would keep blaming me. All my attempts to communicate in a peaceful way failed.
Claire’s course was really eye-opening. I learned so much about myself and my relation to people in all areas of my personal and professional life. It’s incredibly helpful to know what type of difficult person you’re dealing with and what really drives them, and what you can do to change your behaviour, which will, in turn, change theirs. I walked out of this course feeling empowered and much more confident.
This is not something you can learn by reading a book: Claire’s wonderful way of working with the body, the group, the energy, as well as her intuition, clarity and creativity makes this course so great. Even though I never had my ‘practised’ conversation in real life, the work in the course really shifted something and my attitude towards the situation changed. I don’t feel I’m the victim of these difficult people anymore. Thank you, Claire and all the participants.
Anna, Education Administrator Verified Review on Hotcourses
Amazing insight into the various personalities people have. Also seeing the intent that drives people’s difficult behaviour and how to deal with it has made it much easier for me to relate to such people. What I learned too is that I am also at times a difficult person. The biggest shift for me is realising that the quality of the relationship I have with someone is my responsibility, so really I have to take ownership. I now feel bolder, more courageous and slightly less insecure facing people with authority.
Ida, Health practitioner Verified Review on Hotcourses
I signed up to the Dealing with Difficult People course as I’ve always had trouble dealing with difficult personality types, especially at work. I have done other courses with Claire and I like the safe and comfortable atmosphere she creates. The course explored the main difficult personality types and what motivates people to behave that way. I came away understanding some of the difficult people in my life much better as well as how my own behaviour could at tines come across as difficult.
I’d highly recommend this course to anyone who finds themselves replaying events with difficult people and thinking ‘I should have said this instead’. I am still using the tools I learnt in the course and I have felt a great improvement in many relationships. I’m getting better at handling difficult situations and people, asserting boundaries without feeling guilty. Most importantly I had a lot of fun and always looked forward to the session every week.
Jennifer, teacher Verified Review on Hotcourses
I have done several of Claire’s courses over the last few years, starting with “Finding Your Voice”. Part of my reason for going on “Finding Your Voice” was to start feeling more confident when I deal with people that are very different to me or challenging in some way. I had a big shift in my inner confidence from that course, so when Claire ran “Dealing with Difficult People” I was very keen to join.
It was really useful to understand the different types of difficult people, their motivations, the behaviours that they can employ, and how I react to them. Being able to think about effective ways of responding, without being “on the spot” in a real situation, and to try different approaches was extremely valuable. It has given me lots of food for thought and helped me to not feel intimidated by the overbearing people I encounter in my work. I also learned a great deal from the experiences of others on the course and the types of difficult people they encounter. And it was lots of fun!
Mary O’Donnell, engineer
See testimonials of how effective these methods are from my other courses.
DEALING WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE COURSE
Dates: May 14th – July 30th 2019
Venue: Magdalen Centre, Euston NW1 IBN
Cost: £375 which can be paid in installments. £360 full payment discount
I will be running this course again in 2020 either as an evening course (7.45-9.45, cost £375) in September 2020 (Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday) OR as an early evening course (6-7.30pm, cost £315) in May (probably on a Tuesday or Wednesday).
Please express your interest and preferences in joining the course here, or if you have a question about the course:
See calendar for planned dates of next course.
How to find the Magdalen Centre (next to St Mary’s Church), Euston
Limited spaces so you are advised to book as soon as possible. Please note: it is fine to miss one or two sessions and still get enormous value from the course.
How to book your place
You can book online – the easiest way to book. If you would like to join the next course please contact us or fill out the Enquiry form below.
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BOOKING A TELEPHONE CONSULTATION
You are welcome to book an informal consultation on the phone if you’re not sure this is the right group for you. Or send us an email below.