Why the things you’ve tried haven’t worked

creativeYou may have tried lots of things to come out of your shell, get over feeling inhibited, shy or self consciousness.

You may have read all the books about it,  been to workshops that promised to change your life, done assertiveness, presentation or confidence building courses,  learned countless success techniques, or have been going round and round in circles in therapy talking about your issues.

But you’re still stuck in your shell.

However there’s a very good reason why these things haven’t worked:

  •  They’re head based – and you can’t come out of your shell if you’re in your head, sitting on a chair or lying on a couch. It is simply impossible.
  • They’re a technique – and it takes a long time for a technique to become second nature however hard you work at it.
  • They’re not designed specifically for moving you out of your shell.

Many, many people struggle with self-consciousness in some form or other. They may describe it as a lack of self-confidence, of feeling inhibited, feeling stuck, confused, depressed, or a feeling that they are not fulfilling their potential.

Feeling Locked Away

shyIt all boils down to the same thing – of feeling locked away, boxed in, or trapped within yourself.

This maybe because you are:

  • an introvert like me and have a tendency to withdraw into yourself
  • reserved, shy, or quiet
  • have had some difficult experiences in your life which you’ve never quite got over (sometimes in spite of years of therapy)

If  you experience any of these issues, then I assure you there is a way out of this. I’ve done it myself and I’ve helped hundreds of people like you do the same.

And don’t worry if you’ve spent a lot of time and money on other approaches, nothing has been wasted because the work you’ve done will enable you to break out of your shell FASTER.

What will work?

Making Moves courses work because:

  • they are designed for you to come out of your shell at your own pace and in your own way.
  • they will get you out of your head so you will start operating from a more intuitive place. Watch the world open up for you in surprising ways, as more of the real you comes out.
  • they are not a technique but will shift you at a fundamental level so you will find yourself behaving in new and surprising ways without even thinking about it.
  • they are fun and that actually is why they work so well.
  • they won’t break the bank. My events are priced at an affordable level and in most cases you can pay by installments to make paying as painless as possible.

The Sunflower Effect

But one of the main reasons that they are so effective is that they work in a completely different way from most confidence courses.

They are based on my own experiences of transforming from a wallflower into a confident person in a relatively short amount of time. I developed the Sunflower Effect, which uses an adapted form of drama combined with the personal development tools that worked the best for me.

The Sunflower Effect works on the principle that the very thing that poses the deepest challenge for most quiet, shy and reserved people – doing drama, being in the spotlight – is the thing that will liberate you from the internal restrictions that are holding you back.

My courses provide a very safe environment in which you can gradually expand your comfort zone bit by bit, so that you will find yourself easily accomplishing the things that used to be challenging for you.

This could be speaking up in front of groups,  socialising with your peers, networking, holding your own with dominant personalities, delivering presentations and reports or advancing your career prospects.

It has enabled hundreds of people say goodbye to their wallflower existence and  become “sunflowers” – someone who is naturally self confidence.

It doesn’t matter inhibited or self conscious you are, I have helped even people with very severe issues that believed they would never this issue.

How to get started

Claire New BookIf you haven’t yet signed up for my free e-book “The Self Confidence Myth” I suggest you start there. This will show you that it is a myth that you lack confidence.

The ebook is a very good way to gain more understanding of why you are in your shell and what it will take to get you out of it – and will go into a lot more depth about why many approaches don’t work.

Or join one of my introductory groups/courses and start discovering how easy it is for you to start making breakthroughs in this fundamental area of your life.

See my how to get started guide.

From: Claire Schrader

claire135Hi there

Welcome to Making Moves particularly if you've been struggling with confidence.

I've been there myself so I do understand.

If you want to get started as soon as possible, there will also be another Express Yourself introductory evening on 2nd May in the lead up for the start our next round of courses in May.

Here's a bit more about each course:

The Breakthrough Group is the first step for many people - I've seen some miraculous transformations in my 18 years of running this group.

If being heard, speaking up in groups or any kind of public speaking is your challenge, then the Finding Your Voice course is a good place to start.

"I don't know what to say" is great for people with average confidence but find themselves stumped with what to say, working through improvisation and will transform your verbal confidence and social skills.

I suggest you book a telephone appointment with me and we can explore which would be the best first step for you, or get in touch by email

I look forward to hearing from you

Best, Claire